f r i e n d s ?

recently was talking to a friend about some of the people around us whom we know. (right now, am saying 'people' and not 'friends', because obviously, do not know if am able to really call them friends.) feel strongly about this, therefore might sound increasingly angry while blogging all these down. pardon me if it's something you guys do not happen to like. actually, i take it back. do not really care what you people think. unless you're one of my close friends. and guys, you know who you are. =] *muacks* ----------------------------------------------------------- anyway, admist our animated conversation, i realised afew top traits i have come to detest from my friends, or rather, soon-to-be friends. here goes the list. *drumroll* pai ming bu fen xian hou! (i.e. it's not ranked. ya, cos all of those are just as detestful.) -------------------- 1. 'gei-gao' or calculative. it's not wrong to draw a clear line when it comes to money. but it's not right to be over-calculative about it. when eating at fancy places, some people act as if they did not receive any service from the staff. for example, food cost $15 so they pay $15. only. like, hello! did you go to the kitchen to get your own food? well maybe you should next time! -------------------- 2. fake. wow, when i say fake, it's really fake. f-a-k-e. you'd be surprised. being super nice and ultra smiley infront of you, but bitching about you to others behind your back. grrrrrrrrrr. -------------------- 3. taking your friend for granted. no one in the world is supposed to treat you well. (probably except your family members, but there are exceptions as well.) when your friend is good to you, it's because they are being nice. it depends on whether you deserve the treatment. because friends around you are not supposed to be ultra nice to you, or do things for you. they are NOT SUPPOSED TO. -------------------- 4. taking advantage of your friend. it's often easy to tell who are those people who cannot bring themselves to say 'no' to you. but. it does not mean that you can exploit their kindness. knowing very well that they will not turn down any of your requests, and yet you ask for favours all the time, it's exploitation. E-X-P-L-O-I-T-A-T-I-O-N.! -------------------- hmmm. think that's about it.. have actually kept this as a draft for a day now, but i find nothing more to add. was a little apprehensive in blogging about this as well.. but what the heck. i'll post it anyway. -------------------- these things, thankfully, has not happened often to me. but it has happened and is still happening to my friends around me. (maybe it's because people know that i bite and secretly devour human as a past time.) i feel very angry when i hear of such things. and i really cannot understand, no matter how hard i try, why do these people treat friends who are nice to them in this manner. but perhaps am not them therefore do not understand their mentality. glad am not them anyway. hah! -------------------- so reading till here, you must have been thinking already; i hope. so think: do you have such a friend around you? --------------------