Monday, October 10, 2005

e v o l v e d ?

it is apparent that women are evolving.

we have come a long way, from being the woman behind our man, the submissive supporting actress in the relationship; to the all-new power woman, superwoman.

we no longer have to depend on a man for our survival, we can earn our keeps; and do just as well, if not better, than the men.

as our role evolve and change, we assume men's do as well.

but are they actually evolving?

is there really such a thing as the new man?

do men know that we no longer are the docile species they once knew?

do they really get it?

if they do, then why do some men still insist on chauvinism?

why do they still insist on being the superior gender, taking women for granted?

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i once heard something very true said in the sex and the city series.

"there are hundreds upon hundreds of articles written about the new man.

but does this new man really exist?

perhaps he is the old man, renamed and re-packaged, by some clever PR woman."

how aptly expressed.

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so, do such men exist?

can someone tell me?

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Monday, October 03, 2005

m e , m y s e l f , a n d , i ?

something interesting i saw from LMD's post.

decided to do it cos'..

reason #1. am bored.

reason #2. haven't been blogging for a long time.

7 things that scare me:

1. horror movies

2. ghost stories

3. losing a loved one

4. not being able to love anybody

5. not being loved by anybody

6. being ugly

7. not having good friends around

7 things i like most:

1. singing

2. pretty objects (i say pretty objects cos' i love stuff that are pink, fluffy, princess-y, dreamy.. you get the picture.)

3. feeling good about myself

4. listen to genuine praises (about myself, of course.)

5. being able to play difficult piano pieces the piano

6. dreaming

7. being a drama-mama

7 random facts about me:

1. i loved the 2 weeks spent in cambodia helping the orphanage

2. i once hid in a corner and cried when my teacher gave me a C+ for my art piece in secondary school

3. i am a natural liar

4. i have a flair for arts and languages as opposed to the math and sciences

5. i find it very difficult to tell a person my innermost feelings, thoughts, and troubles (i write them down in a diary)

6. during my adolescence period, i felt miserable most of the time

7. i am a girly girl at heart *flutters long lashes* *giggles*

7 things i plan to do before i die:

1. be a singer

2. be an actress

3. travel around the world

4. find someone who will treat me like his princess

5. get married

6. get rich

7. or i can always get married to someone rich (hah!)

7 things i can do:

1. i can drive

2. i can sing

3. i can play the piano

4. i can bake

5. i can swim

6. i can cry as and when i like

7. i can stay at home the entire day without coming online for 5 consecutive days

7 things i cannot do:

1. i cannot play the guitar

2. i cannot see properly without my glasses and contact lens

3. i cannot seem to like studying

4. i cannot dance

5. i cannot seem to say comforting words to people when they are sad

6. i cannot seem to save money

7. i cannot play basketball (and volleyball) without the ball hitting me

7 things i say the most:

1. huh?

2. err..

3. haha!

4. rolls eyes!

5. simi dai?

6. watever~

7. hmmm..