Sunday, May 08, 2005
p a s s e d ?
have you ever had the feeling of being 'passed' around?
or do you know of people who are sort of being 'passed' around?
what do i mean by 'passed' around?
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hmmm.
girl has a bf, AAA, now.
she knows all his friends.
after she breaks up with AAA, she goes with BBB, who happens to be AAA's friend, and also liked her for quite some time.
the cycle continues until she 'finishes' every of AAA's friend.
it's a high possibility that she might end up permanently with one of them.
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how can some girls do that, i wonder.
everytime you go out with you boyfriend and his friends, you inevitably meet an ex of yours.
isn't it awkward?
i always thought it would be awkward.
can you imagine if in the above scenario, at the table, every single one of them was your boyfriend once, and they all know what you're like, how you kiss and all.
eeew.
*shudders at thought*
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also, there are some cases when guy like girl, but he knows his good friend likes her as well.
therefore, he tries to 'give her up' to him, knowing fully well that the girl will not like his friend and sort of likes him.
well, in this cases, i daresay that guys are in the wrong.
a relationship is about 2 people, isn't it?
and girls are not presents meant to be passed around.
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and, speaking of guys.
how come they always seem to have the same taste and like the same girls?
if supposedly his best friend has a pretty girlfriend, and the moment he saw her, he liked her as well.
it's true he is not at fault to like her when he saw her, supposedly not knowing she is his friend's girlfriend at that time, of course.
but after knowing she is attached to your good friend and yet still liking her is something wrong, isn't it?
isn't this lusting after your best friend's girlfriend, and something that should not ought to be thought of, much less done.
hmmmmmmm.
what do you think?
can someone tell me?
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well, i think it's too simplistic to say "aiyah then don't like him la!" because very often, you can't switch off your feelings as and when you like.
ReplyDeletefinding out that the person you like belongs to your friend (assumimg you didn't know that before) is not gonna miraculously enable you to retract your feelings for that person just like that.
but i think, under *most* circumstances, what we can/are in control of are our actions.
it's gonna be very weird and hard in the beginning bah... but if both of them really like each other den i think they will havta tolerate wadeva gossips that will be passed ard talking abt them?
ReplyDeleteanyway, liking ur fren's gf/bf is really very weird................
ya.. already liking one is so weird, can you imagined being 'passed' around to the entire group?!!
ReplyDeleteweird huh.
i suppose noone can miraculousy retract their feelings, but guilt will somehow overweigh the attraction won't it?
and, after all, it's merely an attraction, there's no love to talk about if they haven spoken to eacth other before and find a common understanding, right?
infatuation
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