l o v e ?

marriage, cohabitation, promiscuities?

which are the choices people are making nowadays?

and what choice will you make?

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the less desirable ones first.

really can't decide which i deplore more; cohabitation or promiscuities.

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promiscuities.

need we say more?

good social life, different sexual partners, freedom and unrestricted life.

but.

emotionally lonely and empty (maybe).

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cohabitation?

some might think cohabitation is good because it gives a good feel of what marriage life is about.

suppose it depends and varies for individuals.

it's nothing taxing on the guy and he doesn't lose out much; but what about the woman?

if the 'pre-marriage plan' (as some like to call it) doesn't work out, then what?

still feel that it's definitely not exactly the same if married.

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marriage.

hmmm.

would have to say marriage is probably to tie two people down; to give each other assurance that they have responsibility for each other and their future life together.

most sane people won't give birth to, like, five kids, for a man whom she is not married to.

he does not have responsibility to look after her and the kids.

if he finds another who is more attractive, then what will happen to the woman?

therefore, am being very practical and down-to-earth, and somewhat cruel (to my own world of fantasies and sugar-coated marshmallows); to say that the marriage certificate is indeed for the sake of assurance.

(not to forget also to threaten the man with legal lawsuit should the marriage fail).

well, suppose that all truth hurts.

(it's true! my world of fantasies filled with rainbows and cotton candy floss is now trying to erase that piece of hard news by painting it over with chocolate paint.. mmm..yummy..!)

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so i can always say (and think) that marriage is about faith and growing old together.

oh, and there's always the good old thing that everyone needs.

love.

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